™ A program by Janet Goodwin

You're not broken.
You just never had the right tools.

10 weeks of nervous system work built specifically for ADHD brains — and the moms raising little ones just like them.

🌿 Only 3 coaching spots available per month


Find what's right for me 💛

For the mom who's tried everything and still feels like she's failing

You love your kids more than anything. And you're exhausted by how hard it is to just feel okay.

This isn't a willpower problem. This isn't a character flaw. Your ADHD brain has incredible gifts — it just needs tools that were actually designed for the way it works.

Find your path in 3 questions

When you're in a hard moment, what feels most missing?

How do you feel about learning something new?

What feels most important to you right now?

✦ Your path

The Regulated Hot Mess™ Course

You're a self-starter who learns best when the content is actually built for your brain — and this is. 10 weeks of audio lessons, exercises, and grounding practices you can do anywhere, anytime. No scheduling, no pressure. Just real tools that work.

✦ Your path

Full 1:1 Coaching Package

You're someone who does better with real support alongside the tools — and that makes total sense. The full coaching package gives you 10 weekly 1:1 sessions with Janet, the complete course, full app access, and your Reiki I certification. The whole thing, held with care.

What the Course Offers

30 audios across 10 weeks — a lesson, an exercise, and a grounding practice for each module. No reading, no sitting still, no perfect conditions required. Just press play whenever you're ready.

01
Your Nervous System Isn't Broken — The Mold Was
🎧 Lesson · ✍️ Exercise · 🌿 Grounding
02
Why ADHD Makes This Harder. You're Not Defective, You're Different.
🎧 Lesson · ✍️ Exercise · 🌿 Grounding
03
Recognizing Your Triggers Before They Recognize You
🎧 Lesson · ✍️ Exercise · 🌿 Grounding
04
The Shame Spiral and How to Get Out of It
🎧 Lesson · ✍️ Exercise · 🌿 Grounding
05
Regulation Tools That Actually Work for ADHD Brains
🎧 Lesson · ✍️ Exercise · 🌿 Grounding
06
Breaking the Generational Cycle
🎧 Lesson · ✍️ Exercise · 🌿 Grounding
07
What to Do When You're Running on Empty
🎧 Lesson · ✍️ Exercise · 🌿 Grounding
08
Regulated Enough — Releasing the Standard of Perfection
🎧 Lesson · ✍️ Exercise · 🌿 Grounding
09
Raising Regulated Kids
🎧 Lesson · ✍️ Exercise · 🌿 Grounding
10
You Are Not the Cycle Anymore
🎧 Lesson · ✍️ Exercise · 🌿 Grounding

✦ What you walk away with

  • 🧠A real understanding of why your brain works the way it does — and why that's not a flaw
  • 🛠️Regulation tools you can actually use in the moment — not just when everything is calm
  • The ability to offer yourself self-healing in real time
  • 🌱Tools to help your kids self-regulate in the moment — breaking the cycle where it starts
  • 💔A way out of the shame spiral so you can stop punishing yourself for the hard days
  • 🌿30 audios that are yours to keep and come back to forever
$797

One-time · Yours to keep forever

Get the Course 🌿

What the 1:1 Coaching Offers

Everything in the course — plus 10 weekly private sessions with Janet, full app access, and your Reiki I certification. This is the full experience, held with real support every step of the way.

The shift that happens

Where you are now

  • Reacting before you can catch yourself
  • Feeling like everything is just too much
  • Trying tools that weren't built for your brain
  • Carrying it all alone
  • Surviving the day instead of living it
  • Worrying your kids will carry this too

Where you're going

  • Catching the spiral before it starts
  • Calmer and more present with your kids
  • Tools that actually work for your brain
  • Supported, seen, and not alone
  • Feeling like yourself again
  • Giving your kids the tools you never had

Tools you'll gain

Self-Healing Practices
Learn to offer yourself Reiki and energetic healing — in the moment, whenever you need it.
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Raise Regulated Kids
Pass the tools on. Help your children self-regulate in the moment so they don't have to unlearn it later.
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ADHD-Specific Regulation
Tools built for the way your brain actually works — not the neurotypical version that's never fit.
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Break the Shame Spiral
Stop punishing yourself for the hard days. Learn how to move through guilt without being swallowed by it.
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Break Generational Patterns
Understand where the cycle started and how to make sure it ends with you.
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In-the-Moment Tools
Practical grounding and regulation skills you can actually use when things go sideways — not just when you're calm.

Everything that's included

$3,500

One-time investment · Payment plans available

🌿 Only 3 spots available per month

Work with Janet 1:1 💛

Hi, I'm Janet 💛

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Janet Goodwin
Mom · ADHD brain · Reiki Master · Medium

I'm a mom with an ADHD brain, a Reiki Master, and a Medium. I created The Regulated Hot Mess™ because ADHD brains have so much to offer — but we've been given almost no tools to help us grow.

Thinking outside the box is our superpower. So the tools have to match. Everything I teach is built for the way our brains actually work — not the way we were told they should.

And one of the most powerful things I've found? When we heal ourselves, we automatically start healing the little ones watching us. You learning to regulate is the greatest gift you can give your kids.

A few things people ask

Nope. If you recognise yourself in what you've read here — the overwhelm, the spiral, the "I've tried everything" — this is for you. Diagnosis optional.

The course is self-paced audio content you work through on your own — 30 audios across 10 modules, yours forever. The coaching package includes all of that, plus 10 weekly 1:1 sessions with Janet, full app access, and your Reiki I certification. If you want support alongside the tools, coaching is for you.

Every session is different because every week is different. We meet you where you are — whether that's processing something hard, learning a new tool, or just having someone hold space while you breathe.

Yes — and this is one of the most powerful parts of the work. Week 9 is specifically dedicated to raising regulated kids, and your Reiki I certification (included in coaching) means you can offer energy healing to your children too. The tools you learn aren't just for you.

Yes! Payment plans are available for the coaching package. Just reach out to Janet directly and she'll find something that works 💛

Reiki is an energy healing practice that works beautifully alongside nervous system regulation. Your Reiki I certification means you'll be able to use it on yourself and your children — a skill you'll have forever.